I couldn’t admit that I was wrong, so I kept going.

i was wrong

It’s hard for me to admit when I am wrong, even if only to myself. I experienced a clear example of this recently when I visited Dunnellon in central Florida for the first time.

I was to meet a friend for lunch in this quaint little town. However, when I arrived at the restaurant she texted she was running about 30 minutes late. So I decided to get a Klondike bar from a convenience store. Rather than turn around to go back to the quick-stop I’d just passed, I chose to explore a little by continuing further along the road.

After zipping along a few miles without spotting a place, I wondered if it might be better to turn around. But as I passed churches, a retirement home, a high school, and a fruit stand, I just could not bring myself to make a u-turn.

I was invested.

I continued to forge ahead. One more curve, one more hill, surely there will be a convenience store soon. I’ve come this far. There’s got to be one any minute.

I ended up driving 10 miles to find a place even though I knew there was one less than a ½ mile from the restaurant.

I literally could not change direction because I was attached to being right.

Why did I need to keep going and going? Why was it so difficult for me to admit to myself that I was wrong? What was so hard about deciding to cut my losses and change course?

If I am to become a Messenger of Love (BAMOL), I need to learn to be more flexible.

BAMOL involves learning to be compassionate and forgiving of myself so that I can show love and kindness out in the world. If I am rigidly sticking to a (failing) plan then I run the risk of being inflexible and agenda-driven with others.

My work is to learn how to go with the flow and allow myself to be wrong. I want to be more open to changing course along the way. By letting go of perfection and allowing myself to be fallible, I allow others to do so, too.

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How hard is it for you to admit when you are wrong? Can you easily change course and adopt a new agenda? We can inspire each other when we share stories in the comments below or in the private Facebook group.

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About Liz Violet Newell 31 Articles
Liz Violet Newell has been inspiring, encouraging, advising, and supporting others through various business and volunteer positions since 1999. Her life story of continuous self-improvement serves as the foundation for her writing, and the motivation behind her desire to make a difference through love and kindness. Liz has overcome extreme shyness, childhood bullying, won a lifelong battle with overeating, and survived divorce. She is active in a vibrant and supportive community of empowered women, spiritual practitioners and avid writers.

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